A year later, I'm still standing

A year ago today, Matt, the girls and I were on our way to Alabama to see my sister and my mom.  About two hours into the drive, I got a call from my nurse practitioner that changed my life - and the lives of those closest to me - forever.  While she didn't have all of the path report results yet, she confirmed my biggest fear... I had breast cancer.  Motherfucking cancer.  A year later, I'm still standing.

I started an aggressive chemo plan on April 5, 2012.  I lost all my hair (yep, even there).  I lost my energy.  I lost my ability to focus and remember things.  My hands and fingers ached from the chemo-caused neuropathy.  I never lost my wit or my undeniable charm.  (Snicker.)  A year later, I'm still standing.

On September 17, 2012, I had my right breast removed.  Cut off.  Amputated.  I had a crazy milk jug-feeling tissue expander sewn into me and some lovely bruises and scars that earned the nickname, "Frankenboob."  I had drains that looked like testicles coming out of my side.  The bruises faded, the drains came out and Frankenboob's scars have healed quite nicely.  A year later, I'm still standing.

I began 6 weeks' worth of radiation treatments on October 15, 2012 that left me with Texas fried skin.  I was crunchy, burnt and peeling and experienced the worst fatigue since chemo.  I still have some darkened areas of skin, but it's pretty much back to normal now.  A year later, I'm still standing.

In 39 days, on April 22, 2013, I will have my final reconstruction surgery to give me new, cancer-free boobies (and a flat tummy to boot!).  It'll be a longer recovery than the first surgery and I may be hunched over while my incisions heal, but you know what?  I'll STILL be standing.

All of the things I've experienced in the last year have made me a more determined person.  I'm stronger than I ever knew I could be.  Cancer couldn't take that from me.

Fuck you, cancer.  Fuck you where it hurts.  You smacked me around and tried to make me tap out but guess what...

I'M STILL STANDING.